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January 20, 2017

My Ex Boyfriend Is Hot And Cold to Me! What’s the Best Way to Handle Him

In this video ‘break up Brad’, Brad Browning talks about what you can do to reverse a breakup and get a second chance with your ex.

Don’t show your ex that his apathy is bothering you.

If your ex is acting cold towards you but you show that it is bothering you then it will show your ex that you still care, and you run the risk of appearing needy. This will not be appealing to your ex and will drive him even further away from you. You need to act totally detached for a while and let your ex start to miss you.

Cut contact with your ex for some time. Keep yourself occupied.

You need to create some space between you and your ex, perhaps for some time, such as a few weeks even. Why do you need to do this? Well, your ex needs space within which to miss you. Men are wired differently to women, and when a guy misses you, he suddenly finds himself attracted to you again. Keep yourself occupied, stop talking to your friends and family about things, make time for YOU again. This will help the time to go faster… it may feel like a difficult feat, but this really is the only way to get your ex back to you.

Break the ice with something fun. But never appear to be needy.

You want to break the ice with your ex after you have ignored him for a while. However, you do not want to appear needy.

So – make sure that when you do contact him, you do so in a fun and flirty way. Send him something lighthearted and funny – a video of his favorite celebrity doing something crazy for example. Remind of him why he fell for you in the first place. Do NOT however be tempted to talk about the breakup or ask him how he is doing. This may push him away from you.

You basically want to break away from your ex for a while in order to create a vacuum. Then, you give your ex the chance to work through his negative feelings, start to miss you, and finally find himself desiring you.

For more information on what you can to do to get him running back to you you can head on over to breakupbrad.com where you can learn more about how to get your ex back.

About Brad Browning

Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.

Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.







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