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February 20, 2016

5 Mistakes That Ruin Your Chances Of Getting Your Ex Back

In this video Brad talks about 5 common mistakes which can ruin your future with your ex.

These common mistakes will make getting back with your ex difficult or impossible. These errors happen most often during the painful first days or weeks following a breakup, but they are to be avoided if you’re serious about wanting your ex back.

1. Begging and pleading

Resist the temptation to offer to change anything and everything about yourself to get your ex back. Not only will you probably not be able to deliver on these hasty promises, your ex will see you as weak and needy which qualities are totally un-attractive.

2. Getting angry or vengeful

Even when you are furious or hurt to your very core, getting angry or ugly with your ex is counterproductive. You must exercise all the restraint necessary to avoid this in private and especially in public.

3. Saying “I love you”

Guilting your ex is not helpful. No words or cards or flowers will do what you’re hoping to accomplish. If there is a reconciliation in your future, it will be because your natural attraction to each-other has re-established itself. Do your best to keep your chin up and be as ‘whole’ as you can be.

4. Publicly demonstrating your misery

Your ex, who is probably already feeling guilty and missing you, doesn’t need to be made to feel worse by seeing you in the throes of pain and misery. He or she most certainly doesn’t need to see these emotions in front of others. If you burst into tears when your ex enters the room, you will, probably, end all hope of ever putting your relationship back together.

5. Becoming your ex’s friend

This mistake will result in your becoming your ex’s emotional dumping ground. If you care about this person and want them back in your life in a loving way, you must not settle for “just being friends.” Remember, your ex must learn to miss you before any serious healing can begin. If you’re still around as a buddy, the critical missing of you cannot happen. Walk away from this person as totally as you can. Stay away for the full 30-days or more if you’re still not feeling as if you can live the rest of your life without your ex.

By doing these things, you stand to ruin your chances of getting back with your ex forever.

About Brad Browning

Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.

Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.