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February 28, 2016

How Can I Meet Men When I am Shy

In this video, dating coach and relationship expert Matthew Hussey explains that a label doesn’t have to define you, and that you can go out and meet a guy who is right for you, even if you think you are an introverted person.

The Difference Between Shy and Introverted

Being introverted can actually be a beautiful quality. There is a difference between being shy and introverted. Shyness implies a level of insecurity. Being introverted is someone who feels more replenished being in their own company. They look inward for their thoughts instead of having to share them and connect with other people all the time. Neither of these labels have to define you.

Don’t Let a Label Define You

You don’t have to be one thing a hundred percent of the time. You can be introverted and at the same time have those moments where you do feel like going out, or you feel more playful or louder. You have to allow yourself to have that flexibility to explore new opportunities and new parts of yourself. Just because you’re more of an introvert doesn’t mean that you can’t be passionate, energetic, have great hobbies, or lead an exciting life. You can’t just define yourself as an introvert because then you are in danger of giving in to all your fears about the world.

Do The Work

People are attracted to other people for all different reasons, sometimes because of similarities and sometimes because of differences. You have to get out there and meet men before you can know what you are truly attracted to, even if you are introverted. You don’t have to be loud and obnoxious, but you can make the effort to meet men. Don’t be afraid of doing the work.

Learn Who You Are

Don’t use a label to avoid you fears. Men do look for the sweet spot, the woman who can be an extrovert and introvert, who is passionate and also quiet. Being an introvert doesn’t have to be boring. You will find a man who loves you for who you are, but you have to learn who you are first. You can’t hide your best qualities behind insecurities, or no man will ever see them.

About Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.

Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.

To know more about Matthew Hussey, visit his website below.