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May 27, 2015

How To Communicate With Him In Such a Way That Leaves Him Wanting For More

In this video, Matthew Hussey shares advice on how to communicate with men in such a way that leaves them wanting more.


One of the biggest issues women have is how to communicate to men what their standards are and the reason for this is that they often don’t even know how to articulate them to themselves. Furthermore even when they know what their standards are and how they expect a man to behave around them they aren’t sure how to communicate them to a man. They worry they will come across as too stubborn, nagging, high maintenance, or aggressive. Many women fear confrontation as well – they may not like what he did but they’re afraid to say anything because they don’t want to create friction. The sad thing is that communicating your standards is one of the most attractive things you can do and if you can pull that off you will attract him on a completely different level than any other women.

Mistakes Women Make

What if he asks you home after a first date? There are two types of women who make major mistakes in this situation. The first is overly aggressive saying something like “are you kidding me?” That creates confrontation, bruises his ego and leaves him not wanting to take chances with you again. The other type of woman is too passive and sweet. For example, she may make excuses as to why she can’t. He will never know the reason you didn’t come home with him was because he was moving too fast. The overly sweet woman may also go home with him even though it’s not her standard. The overly aggressive woman creates tension, but not the good kind. She doesn’t create any excitement or desire. The too sweet woman doesn’t create respect. She also doesn’t create excitement and he gets bored.

The Bliss Point

Then there’s the woman who has found the optimal level of salty and sweet. It’s called the bliss point in the food industry because it only leaves you wanting more. She says 1. You know there’s a part of me that would love to because I think you’re really great. 2. However, it’s not really my style to move that fast. 3. If you’d like to go out later this week or next, I’d love too. This is a woman who leaves a man wanting more and thinking he needs to see her again. She’s let him know that she likes him, she’s effectively communicated her standard and she’s left the door open for him to step up his game. She has found the bliss point and has left him only wanting more.

The bliss point in the food industry is a food that has the optimal level of salty and sweet or other ingredients that leave you never feeling satiated. You’ll never stop eating it and you’ll always come back for more. A woman who can communicate her standards effectively has found the bliss point when it comes to men. It will always leave him wanting more. It will create tension in a good way, it will create desire, and he will respect you. You’ll leave him wanting more every time.

About Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.

Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.

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