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December 6, 2015

How To Have a Successful Long Distance Relationship With Him: 3 Keys For Success

Are you in a long distance relationship and looking for ways to make it work? In this video, Matthew Hussey a dating coach and relationship expert shares the top 3 secrets to make a long distance relationship last with him.

Never underestimate the element of surprise

Create unexpected moments with your partner in your daily communication. Mix it up. Skype is a great communication tool, but don’t let it get stale. Send a surprise email to brighten his day. Never underestimate the lost art of letter writing. Even if it’s only a couple of heart felt, genuine lines, writing is a way for your partner to have something tangible, a way for him to touch you, if only for a moment. Send a surprise picture from your day. It’s a great way to let your partner share in your experiences. If possible, send a gift to let your partner know you are thinking of him.

Hone your senses

Couples in long distance relationships may actually be more likely to develop the key factors that make a relationship successful. Long distance couples are not able to have all the intimate moments, kiss, touch, or have sex (although don’t rule out Skype), like couples who are next to each other, but often this leads to the development of more fundamental relationship building. Communicating every day, truly getting to know your partner, learning to read him; these skills are often more fundamental than being close to a person every day and substituting a physical relationship for a real connection.

Conquer the world together

Long distance relationships are hard. A true, genuine, connection with another person is needed to maintain any relationship, whether you are close together or far apart. One of the most important aspects of a successful long distance relationship is your mindset. Have a conversation with your partner and make sure he is on the same page. It’s important to view your relationship as a team effort in which no obstacle, problems, or people will stand in the way of your feelings for him.

Go to bat for each other

Help each other be strong. Pick each other up along the way. Remember, even in the hard and lonely times, that your partner is important enough to put in the effort for. Lose the fear of what everyone else is saying. Some people won’t understand what you are working towards and no one knows your relationship, or your partner, like you do. Most importantly, create a milestone you are working towards, a light at the end of the tunnel; the time you will see him again, a vacation together, a final end to your separation- these are all great milestones to look forward to.

Always remember, no time spent truly getting to know and love another person is a waste. Even if your relationship, near or far, comes to an end, take something of value away. Reflect on the important lessons you learned. This wisdom and reflection will only serve to strengthen you and make your next relationship that much more successful.

About Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.

Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.

To know more about Matthew Hussey, visit his website below.