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May 11, 2015

Little Known Reasons Why You Are Repeatedly Attracting the Wrong Men

In this video Karla Downing talks about the self-sabotaging patterns of behavior in women that repeatedly attract the wrong kind of men.

Take Responsibility for the Men you Attract

The first thing you need to do is to take responsibility.  Listen to the question – “Why do repeatedly attract the wrong men?”  It’s not as if they are attracted to you and you are doing nothing to attract them.  You are responsible for the type of men you attract and the relationships you enter into.

To Attract Healthy Men You Need to Be Healthy Yourself

In order to attract healthy men, you need to be healthy yourself.  If you have low self-esteem and don’t believe you are worthy of a good relationship than you will not get a good relationship.  Women that have been in bad relationship after bad relationship usually do so out of self-sabotaging behaviors.

Different forms of Self-Sabotaging Patterns

Women suffering from low self-esteem have a belief that they don’t really deserve a good relationship.  Another issue is a fear of intimacy.  This is fear of being vulnerable.  These women pick men they know won’t commit to protect themselves or a man they know will abandon them as a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy.  Some women also have a fear of being alone, and for these women, any man will do. We talk about men that won’t commit, but this can be the case with women as well.  They may not want to give up their freedom or their career.  Others seek out relationships that they saw as a child.  For example women whose fathers were cheaters may also date cheaters.

You are responsible for the type of man you attract and the relationships you enter into.  Women suffering from low self-esteem, fear of intimacy, or other issues may self-sabotage their relationships either to protect themselves or as a self-fulfilling prophecy.  If you truly want a good relationship but keep attracting the wrong type of man take a look at yourself and what your part is in the situation.  In order to attract a good man, you need to be a healthy woman that believes she deserves a good, healthy man.

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