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December 6, 2015

What To Text Your Ex Boyfriend To Get Him Back

In this video, relationship coach Brad Browning describes which text messages to send your ex-boyfriend to increase your chances of winning him back.

Prepare Him for Contact

Remember it’s important that you maintain a period of no contact after a breakup. Don’t just randomly start texting your boyfriend. You must be sure you yourself are ready, and that you are sending the right signals and preparing him to receive these texts.

Don’t Text Something Boring

You never want to bore your ex. Boredom isn’t going to make him want to be in a relationship with you. Texts like “hey” or “how’s it going?” aren’t going to get him to text you back. You want to grab his attention and affect him emotionally.

Make Sure You Have a Reason to Text

Texting just to talk or because you want to see your ex isn’t a good reason to text. The only reason you should be texting him is when you need something from him. For example, a great text to send is: “What was the name of that movie we watched at New Years? I want to watch it again…” Texts like this are effective because they serve to get the ball rolling.

Once you do get the conversation going then you can start to build attraction. This text doesn’t convey neediness. It may convey a positive feeling in that it reminds him of a happy time that you shared together. It may also incite jealousy. The possibility you may be watching a movie with another guy might not sit well with him.

Don’t Bring up Past Drama

Don’t bring up awkward conflict or be a drama queen, especially over text. Don’t ask him about why he broke up with you or why he’s ignoring you. These questions won’t help you win him back. Adopting an attitude of indifference and implying that you aren’t interested in his life will help to turn the tables. Eventually, the goal is to get him chasing you.

Be Entertaining

You’re never going to bore your ex into being interested in you. You have to stimulate him in a way that captures his attention. You could bring up a hilarious memory that you shared. You could send him a link to a video online that you know he will like. You want to open up the line of communication again so that you can start building attraction and so that he starts wanting to come back to you.

About Brad Browning

Brad Browning is a relationship coach and breakup expert from Vancouver, Canada. For the past decade, Brad has worked with thousands of men and women around the world, helping to reverse breakups and mend broken relationships.

Brad is author of the best-selling Ex Factor Guide program, which teaches readers how to get their ex back. He also offers personal coaching to a limited number of clients, guiding them through the process of winning back an ex or recovering from a difficult breakup.