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February 28, 2016

Why Being Confident About Your Imperfections Will Make You Attractive To Men

In this video, dating coach and relationship expert Matthew Hussey explains how to be confident about your imperfections, even during the face of criticism.

Everyone Has Insecurities

There is no shame in wanting to look and be at your best. However, taking pride in your appearance is not the same as becoming distressed when you’re not at your best. Everyone has insecurities about their bodies, their appearance, and their style. Learning to deal with criticism and coming to terms with owning these emotions can be very powerful.

Become Conditioned

When people criticize you or send negative comments and energy your way, it will hurt and you will be affected. However, you can choose to lean into this criticism and allow yourself to become conditioned to it. Take that negative energy and accept it on your own terms. Give yourself the power to shine a light on it and own it. Don’t worry about perfection. There are parts of your body you won’t like. There will be moments of insecurity. There is a particular power in owning these emotions, in taking control of them and being confident in yourself despite the insecurities. There is no secret in life to never having insecurities. Learn to become resilient, and go for it anyway.

You Don’t Have to Justify Yourself

You don’t need to justify to anyone what you feel is imperfect. When negative energy and criticism are thrown at us, this is often the first response we have. It’s a reflex you must be wary of. When you give someone else so much status that you need to justify yourself to them, you lose any kind of power you have over the situation. Think about your body insecurities or self-conscious thoughts, or the style you want to try but are afraid to; you don’t have to justify yourself to anyone. We all want people to like us, but you need to like yourself first so you don’t have to rely on a validation from other people.

Become Confident Despite Your Imperfections

The most attractive people in life are the ones who are confident despite all their imperfections. They lose the sense of having to justify themselves. They never think that someone will like them less or be less attracted to them because of these imperfections. They stop worrying so much about physical details and instead take their energy and spend it on living a fulfilling life. If you have an unstoppable attitude endless opportunities will be open to you and that will make a profound difference to your personal and love life.

About Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey, speaker and New York Times Bestselling author, serves as a matchmaker on “Ready for Love,” NBC’s innovative and dramatic new relationship show about making real connections.

Through his online programs, viral internet broadcasts, sell-out seminars, NYT Bestselling book, and his roster of private clients, he has been able to pass on his insights and strategies to countless people. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online. Hussey is the new international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene.

To know more about Matthew Hussey, visit his website below.