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February 14, 2016

Why Feeling Bad About Your Breakup Won’t Help You Get Back With Your Ex

You have broken up with your ex, and you feel BAD. Of course you do! But feeling bad could be the one thing that will prevent you from getting back with your ex. Read on to find out why and what you can do about it.

Feeling bad attracts more negativity to you

Law of attraction. Heard of it? If not, Google it. Basically, we create our reality by the thoughts and feelings that we have attracting things that mirror them back to us. So, if you feel bad you will attract more negative energy into your life, and you will continue to feel…. BAD. Is this really where you want to be? Of course not. Make a choice to see this breakup as a challenge. Decide to do the no contact challenge and work on yourself and really make an effort to win your ex back by being FABULOUS.

You can’t change the fact that you two have broken up but you CAN influence whether or not you get back together, and isn’t it worth trying? At least then you can look back if it doesn’t work, and know that you gave your all, and if you gave your all and it didn’t work then it simply wasn’t meant to be.

Feeling bad blocks the good. It blocks the real YOU from emerging

If you are busy wallowing in feeling bad, you are unable to feel good. You of course do have to feel bad. You cannot repress your feelings as that is also not healthy. But if you feel bad and almost revel in that then you are stopping yourself from moving forwards, you are being a Victim and you are doing yourself a dis-service because you are running your chances of winning your ex back by being the awesome you that you truly are!

Know that feeling bad is okay if balanced with feeling good.

Be sure to let yourself feel bad but be in control of it and know when to step in and change your mindset so that you can allow the positive to come in too because this is where CHANGE and transformation happens. You really can see this as a challenge and win your ex back but if you sit around and only focus on loss and feeling pain then you will remain stuck there and you can kiss him goodbye forever.

About Clay Andrews

Clay and Mika are the creators of Ex Solution Program and help couples get back together.